Copenhagen is known for its design, its food, its hygge. But if you're visiting and curious about tantra massage — a professional, deeply nourishing and potentially transformative experience — you've come to the right place. This page has everything you need to know.
What is tantra massage — really?
Tantra massage is a conscious, full-body massage that works with your body's energy, nervous system and capacity for sensation. It is slow, intentional and adapted entirely to you — your pace, your boundaries, your needs. A session is three hours, including a short conversation before and after.
It is not a sexual service. It is not what you may have seen in movies or read about online. It is something considerably more interesting — and considerably more subtle — than that.
Many recipients describe experiences comparable to deep meditation, a complete reset of the nervous system, or a kind of contact with themselves they have never felt before. Some come for curiosity. Some come for healing. Some come because something has been missing, and they can't quite name what.
The rumour vs. the reality
Tantra massage is a sexual service — you're paying for sex or sexual stimulation.
Tantra massage is body therapy. The only type where sexual energy may arise and is welcome — but it is never a service, and never the goal.
It always ends in orgasm — that's the whole point.
Orgasm is never a goal or expectation. If it arises naturally, it is welcome. The focus is on presence, sensation and release — not outcome.
It's boundary-crossing and unclear what actually happens.
Everything is agreed upon before the session, within a clear and unbreakable framework. Nothing happens without your explicit consent.
You need to be sexually liberated or spiritually experienced.
Most recipients are entirely new to tantra. No experience, beliefs or special background required.
What to expect
A session with me is three hours. We begin with a short conversation — a chance to land, to share where you are, and to confirm what the session will and won't include. Then the massage begins.
You'll be lying on a floor mat, covered by a sarong. The massage moves through your whole body — back, front, arms, legs, head — slowly and intuitively, following what your body is doing. There is no fixed script. Every session is different, because every person is different.
You are always in control. You can say stop at any moment, for any reason, without explanation. A no is always a no.
After the massage, we sit together briefly. I'll offer you water and a moment to come back to yourself. My recommendation is always to leave some open time afterward — even a short walk in nature.
All tantra massages have agreements or an ethics code, to understand what to expect and provide a framework to hold space for you.
Read: Session Agreement →The most common thing people say afterward is that they didn't know their body could feel like that. The second most common thing is that they wish they'd done it sooner.
Who is this for?
Anyone who owns a vulva and is over 18. You don't need a specific reason, a particular background or a clear intention — though having one can deepen the experience. Whether you're curious, looking for something healing, or simply want to give yourself something you've never given yourself before — you're welcome here.
Practical information
Central Copenhagen — Østerbro. Easy to reach by metro and bus. Full address sent upon booking confirmation.
3 hours, including a short conversation before and after. Plan to arrive without rushing.
Sessions are available in English. All communication — before, during and after — can be in English.
2,100 DKK (approx. €280 / £240). Payment by card or bank transfer. Partial payment available if needed.
Book directly online or send me an email. A free 30-minute call is available if you'd like to talk first.
Free cancellation up to 24 hours before your session. Full details in the terms and conditions.
About Thomas
I've been working as a tantra massage practitioner since 2018. I trained under Sunny Ju — one of Europes most experienced voices in body therapy — and am a faculty member of her school. My work is grounded in the Melting Method, de-armouring, and the Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin.
What drives me is not the technique — it's the meeting. The meeting with a person who is ready to feel more of themselves, understand themselves better, or simply receive something they have never allowed themselves to receive. I work with warmth, patience and a deep respect for your body and your boundaries.
No two sessions are alike. No two recipients are alike. What remains constant is that the space is always safe, honest and created entirely for you.
"The massage was one of the best experiences of my life — it gave me confidence that I don't need a man in my life to feel fulfilled. I would highly recommend this to any woman, so they can experience how good it feels to be treated like a queen."
— Anonymous recipient"You have a very beautiful, sensitive touch and an incredibly intuitive way of moving forward — reading body signs that made the massage unforgettable. A truly pure and empowering experience."
— Anonymous recipient"Thomas was excellent at noticing subtle energy shifts — especially when I resisted a feeling by going off with my awareness, out of my body. He was able to lead me through where I initially did not want to go, enabling me to release old material. I am really grateful for that."
— Anonymous recipientReady to book — or just curious?
You're welcome to start with a free 30-minute call. No commitment, no pressure, completely anonymous. We can talk through any questions you have — nothing is too big or too strange to ask.
Remember: when booking any type of session, terms and conditions for booking apply. You are expected to have read and understood these.
Read: Terms and Conditions →